Who cares what the judges think?

Who cares about what equestrian sport judges think?

I used to… a lot. But not anymore.

The only opinion I care about is my horses.... And my body workers.

I have created somewhat of an obsession for myself. Developing the most functionally sound and eagerly congruent horse that even beginners can ride. I've been obsessed with this for a good 18 years now. It started out, I thought if horses could just be kind and sound they would get a loving home and they wouldn't have to go to the doggers (slaughterhouse, for those of you less familiar with Aussie slang). 

And then I realised there's worse places than the doggers. But that's another story. I stayed obsessed with creating the perfectly sound horse. Anybody that shares that obsession knows how impossible that is. The more I watch horses the harder it is for me to see a sound horse. They all have their tell tale signs of discomfort. 

For a while I went really backwards in my training. Trying to chase these answers we had chiros, massages, equisage, farriers, saddle fitters. We got so desperate with one horse we were getting energy workers and demons exorcised. It got to a point where I quit body workers altogether and decided i would just use strength training and conditioning. 

After a while there would be times that I would attend a lesson and the horse would be moving significantly more freely and happily than the week before. And every time I got the same answer. They had just got their chiropractor out - Tork Cowan. Well of course I had to try him. And the rest is history. He has managed my horses for years now and he has sent me down a whole new rabbit hole obsession of creating a neutral spine, true straightness, to achieve the soundness I'm looking for. 

Horses don't really like to work like that. They have to spend more effort. And achieving that straightness is especially made worse by our hands, riding for submission to the bit instead of acceptance, the horse guarding themselves and their body against the bit being used and pulling them off balance. 

This week Tork came out and ran over our school horses. He went over Rabbit and turned to me and said I can't find anything. My jaw dropped. There's never nothing! He said I know, it's happened like 10 times in my career, I went over him twice to be sure, it's like it's all finally clicked into place. 

And you can't even begin to imagine my giddy glee to hear this!

This horse was so damn cooked and strung out when I started on him. He was always falling in and tripping over his feet. He couldn't pick up the left canter lead (we have a YouTube video of it on) and you know the best part? All the riders that have done his training are kids to teens or adults with less than 5 years riding. I didn't do the work. My students did.

It absolutely makes my heart sing to pass this kind of knowledge on to the next generation of equestrians. How we can ride out horses for soundness and consent. How we can leave them better than we found them. 

I don't care about what the judges say anymore. I care about what my horses and their body workers say (you just gotta find the right body worker).

The day we are judged by qualified body workers is the day I will start taking interest in competitions again.

PEMF and horse behaviour with Kate McGauly from Smiling Horse LLC: Part 3

In the vast expanse of the equestrian world, where hoofbeats echo amidst the whispers of the wind, there exists a profound and symbiotic relationship between horse training and the depths of personal introspection. It's a journey that transcends the mere mastery of equine skills, delving into the uncharted territories of the human spirit, guided by the gentle wisdom of our equine companions.

Enter Kate, a beacon of wisdom in the equestrian realm, whose journey as a seasoned horse trainer and the founder of Smiling Horse LLC has been marked by an unwavering commitment to unraveling the intricate threads that bind horse training to personal growth. With a wealth of experiences garnered over years of dedicated practice, Kate stands as a testament to the transformative power of this journey.

Consider, for a moment, the last time you found yourself grappling with frustration in the presence of your equine partner. Perhaps their behavior seemed perplexing, their responses unpredictable. Yet, in the quiet depths of reflection, a realization dawns – the root of the challenge may not lie solely within the horse but within ourselves. Horses, with their innate sensitivity and intuitive nature, serve as mirrors to our innermost thoughts and emotions, reflecting back to us aspects of ourselves that often remain concealed from the conscious mind.

It's a revelation that invites us to embark on a journey of self-discovery, to confront the shadows that linger within and to embrace the light that illuminates our path forward. Through introspection and self-reflection, we gain a deeper understanding of our own emotional landscape, unraveling the tangled knots of fear, doubt, and insecurity that entwine our hearts.

In the tender embrace of this introspective journey, guided by the gentle nudges of our equine companions, we find solace in the realization that every challenge is an opportunity for growth. For it is in the crucible of adversity that we forge the mettle of our character, honing the virtues of patience, empathy, and resilience that serve as the bedrock of our relationships – both with our horses and with ourselves.

Kate, with her seasoned wisdom, imparts invaluable insights into the importance of nurturing emotional maturity and mastering the delicate dance of ego management in our interactions with horses. Through her guidance, we learn to cultivate a sanctuary of trust and understanding, where the bonds of companionship flourish amidst the tender whispers of mutual respect.

Central to this ethos is the unwavering commitment to horse welfare – a sacred covenant that echoes the timeless wisdom of our ancestors, who understood that true mastery is born not of domination but of collaboration. By honoring the unique needs of our equine partners, we create a harmonious tapestry of mutual respect and reciprocity, where the welfare of the horse takes precedence over the pursuit of mere performance metrics.

In the crucible of the training arena, where dust mingles with the echoes of whispered dreams, we find ourselves embarking on a journey of transformation – a journey that transcends the confines of the tangible world and delves into the realms of the soul. So let us heed the call to embrace this sacred odyssey, guided by the gentle wisdom of our equine companions, as we journey together towards the luminous horizon of self-discovery and enlightenment. Join us on the first do no harm podcast and hear this conversation in full.

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LET’S CONNECT!

Is your riding coach irrelevant?

Sometimes we can find it hard to understand our horses. Reading them is learning another language.

What I teach my (english speaking) students is imagine you went to Germany and you were taking a math class. Would you learn math? No! Because you don't speak German. 

No imagine you were in the same class with a translator. Can you learn the math now? Yes! Is the translator the one teaching you? No. But you can understand what's being said now you have a better chance at learning math.

That's what my role as a coach is. Not to teach math but to translate the language. The horses job is to teach you how they want to be ridden. To begin with you don't understand what they're saying so it's my job to teach you the language so that you can have the conversation with the horse.

Your job is to learn the language so that you can have the conversation without me. 

I want to become irrelevant. 

I want you to be able to have a better conversation with your horse than I can. 

Because I don't know your horse, I only speak some of their language.

Learn how I teach my students how to speak horse in the Say YES to a happy, willing horses Masterclass

PEMF and horse behaviour with Kate McGauly from Smiling Horse LLC: Part 2

Did you watch in wonder as a rider and their horse moved as one, wondering how they got so good at it? 

Or maybe you've felt a bit frustrated because you and your horse just can't seem to click, feeling like you were unable to control your horse, being told your horse is just trying to test and challenge you and you need to push them through it and make them do it? 

You're not alone. 

Lots of riders go through this, wishing for a deeper connection with their four-legged friends.

In a recent chat with Kate McGauly from Smiling Horse LLC, we went on a journey to uncover the secrets of horse friendship, finding simple yet amazing ways to become true partners with our horses while steering clear of common problems found in regular training.

At the heart of being good with horses is a simple idea: agreeing. Instead of treating horses like tools, we need to treat them like friends. By agreeing on what we do together, we build trust and make it easy to work together.

In a world where everything goes fast, it's easy to forget that good things take time. Getting better with horses is no different. It's not about getting to the end quickly; it's about enjoying every step. By slowing down and enjoying the ride, we can become closer friends with our horses.

Regular training often focuses on control. But what if we tried focusing on friendship instead? By building a strong friendship with our horses, we can talk better and work together as friends. It's not about bossing them around; it's about listening and learning together.

Being good with horses isn't just about being strong; it's also about how we show up for our horses when things feel difficult, scary and challenging. We all have things we're scared of, but facing them is how we get better. By admitting our fears and asking for help when we need it, we can become better friends and better partners for our horses.

In the end, riding together with your horse is all about understanding, patience and finding that connection and team. By meeting and supporting our horses needs both in their social environment and learning and training environment, taking our time, focusing on friendship, we can build a friendship that's as strong as it is fun. So, next time you ride, remember to listen to your horse, enjoy the journey, and savor the magic of horse friendship. Check out the full conversation on the first do no harm podcast

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How to become a horse whisperer

The horse whisperer, intuitive equine communication, understanding signals of the nervous system and why a one size fits all approach doesn't work. But this can be very confusing for someone who doesn’t spend every waking moment with a horse - heck, for some people that DO spend every waking moment with horses, they still miss it.

It is part of the reason we have spent decades developing and fine tuning the Holistic Horse Handling Methodology for our students.

One of the first exercises in the Holistic Horse Handling Methodology is reading signs of stress and relaxation in the horse's body. For some this is intuitive knowledge. Sensitive, empathic people that are often told they are too soft. For others, they have to actively learn how to see and pay attention to these subtle signs of the nervous system. They often say a big dangerous behaviour seemingly came out of nowhere. They blow right through a horse's threshold of stress unknowingly which can result in big dangerous behaviours. 

Part of reading the nervous system is being able to read how a horse is feeling before they react and that is our opportunity to offer support. This paves the way to our second module inside the Holistic Horse Handling Methodology: Compassionate Leadership. 

"I see you are stressed, here is how I can help you."

And now we have a foundation of communication based on a sense of security. It is all non verbal. 

The trouble is that while you can see signs of tension-holding and signs of relaxation in one horse, it doesn't mean it looks the same in another horse. This is where understanding the language of the nervous system is so helpful. What tense and stressed looks like and relaxation looks like can look different in different horses however, the nerve pathways are similar.

We can know that signs like

• the head coming higher than wither, 

• the tail locked down, 

• the jaw and lips shut tight, 

Are subtle signs of stress. We can see the rigidity in the body, and know the horse is stressed close to the threshold of coping, without the horse having to exert big behaviours.

We can know that signs like:

• the whiskers starting to twitch, 

• the head coming lower than the wither,

•  the ears relaxing and wiggling out

•  the jaw softening, 

• the tail lift and swish gently

are all signs of the horse starting to relax and feel safe. 

That, in essence, is the starting ground for becoming a horse whisperer, and we share and support our students all the way through the Holistic Horse Handling Methodology so they can start their own journey of intuitive equine communication that allows them to not only read their horses better, but read all horses. 

PEMF and horse behaviour with Kate McGauly from Smiling Horse LLC: Part 1

Ever wondered how to help your horse feel better? Do you worry that you might accidentally make things worse for your horse without knowing it? Well, get ready to discover a game-changing solution! Let's dive into a chat between Katie from Equestrian Movement and Kate McGauly, PEMF Certified Trained Practitioner. They're shining a light on something awesome: Pulse Electromagnetic Field (PEMF) therapy for horses.

How PEMF Therapy Works Wonders

PEMF therapy is like magic for your horse's well-being. It uses electromagnetic fields to help your horse's body heal itself. It's not just about soothing pain and swelling; it can even help with tricky issues like ulcers. By tackling the root causes of discomfort, PEMF therapy gives your horse a natural boost to feel better and live happier.

Understanding Your Horse's Feelings

Pain and tough times can really change how your horse acts. They might not be able to tell you in words, but they show it in their behavior. That's where paying attention comes in. By noticing the little signs, you can figure out what your horse needs. With PEMF therapy, you can give them the help they need to bounce back and feel like themselves again.

Balancing Kindness with Training

When it comes to training your horse, being gentle is key. Positive vibes and trust-building are awesome, but sometimes old-school training methods can make things worse. With PEMF therapy in the mix, you can make training time a healing time too. That way, your horse learns and grows in a happy, healthy way.

Speaking Up for Your Horse

In a world full of opinions and treatments, being your horse's champion is crucial. You know your horse best, so it's up to you to make the right choices. By staying informed and teaming up with experts like Kate McGauly, you can make sure your horse gets the care they deserve.

In a nutshell, chatting with Katie and Kate shines a light on how PEMF therapy can totally transform your horse's life. With a little compassion and some PEMF magic, you can help your horse feel better, live happier, and keep on shining!

By embracing PEMF therapy, you're not just treating symptoms; you're nurturing your horse's natural healing abilities from the inside out. So, the next time your horse shows signs of discomfort or pain-related behaviors, remember that there's a gentle, effective solution within reach. With PEMF therapy, you can be the hero your horse needs, bringing relief, comfort, and joy to their life. Check out the full conversation on the first do no harm podcast

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Dominance theory, in essence, is pretty funny.

I do think the dominance theory is pretty funny. 

The reason is most of the time the horses would never see us humans as their "alpha". Most of the time I see horses considering whether humans can be trusted to be intelligent enough to make good decisions for them, or to feel threatened.

The idea of trying to show them who's boss by threat of physical violence or force is such an interesting perception of how to get a 500kg plus flight animal to cooperate. And I guess it can seem easier to some than just being reliable and someone your horse can trust. But at the end of the day if what you want from your horse is true willingness, congruence, consent, engagement in the work with you, wanting to look after you, coercion doesn't work.

But, building reliable, consistent, positive experiences with you so that the horse can have trust and confidence in your judgment does.

Inevitablyyour horse will spook. Heck they do a better job of not startling at random things then I do! 

Inevitably you will overface yourself and your horse. Often we don't see the full breakdown of the task we are asking that the horse needs to have confidence in participating. 

Inevitably the horse will get bored, frustrated, anxious, irritable, jealous, depressed etc. Because these are all normal, internal chemical responses that mammals have to their external environment and forcing the horse to ignore these internal experiences creates bigger behavioural issues and less willingness to trust.

So next time you're at a crossroads with your horse's behaviour and you're feeling anxious about how you will "correct it" so that you have a safe, reliable horse. Make sure you start out your shaping plan with being a safe, reliable human. And if you're not sure how, we lay out how we do it inside the Holistic Horse Handling Methodology in this free Masterclass.

Straightening a crooked horse that doesn’t want to strike off on the correct canter lead

Does your horse struggle with one lead more than another or just refuse to pick it up all together?

There are 2 reasons for our horses not striking off the canter lead correctly.

1. You may not be communicating clearly which lead you want

2. Your horse may be working crooked and not actually able to strike off that canter lead easily and consistently.

Have a look at this training with Rabbit where we can see that he is loading the right shoulder and rotating the pelvis which is making it difficult for him to get the right canter lead. We implemented our exercises from our course green to self carriage and he is now picking up both canter leads consistently and easily.

Just because we say so, doesn’t mean they will

Everybody learns how to tell a horse what to do.

Not everybody learns that just because you can tell a horse what to do doesn't mean they will do it.

That's literally the saying you can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink

The point of riding schools is to ride horses that will let you learn to tell them what to do so that you can learn how to tell a horse what to do. But most riders who have ever owned a horse know that when it's your horse, telling it what to do is a lot harder and sometimes scarier.

Because what we don't tell you when you come and ride our horses we don't tell you how much we're managing our horses to keep them willing participants. Our horses' health is optimised and prioritised, mentally, physically and emotionally and this is the most challenging part of the congruently willing horse.

Horses have lots of reasons to know want to do as we ask

• They don't trust us

• They don't like us

• They are hungry

• Their saddle is uncomfortable

• Their bit causes wounds on their mouth

• The concussion of the work is too much on their legs and they're developing splints

• Their back is too sore

• Carrying a rider Is hard

• Understanding the rider is harder

• Trying not to fall over while the rider is pulling on its head is harder.

Honestly this list can go a lot longer. Send in a video and I'll tell you what your horse isn't liking.

Managing all these complaints so that the horse is still willingly participating is the most important part of my job. Because if I'm not, I have to pull the horse out of the school.

As soon as they're holding too much tension, it results in physical ailments usually injuries, ulcers and back pain, and if I'm not paying attention to the small details, a flick of the ear, a twist of the hip not only do students start coming off but the horse inevitably becomes physically lame and can be used at all. Some schools push through this by keeping the horse on pain relief. But we are holistic in our approach. We listen to the signs and manage the issues so that the horse enjoys learning, movement feels good and they ask to be ridden.

This means the biggest thing I am managing, that is within my control (aside from saddle fit, body work, chiro, teeth, bit fit and supplements) is how the rider rides.

• I can get them to sit lighter so that their seat isn't hurting their back

• I can get them to centre their balance so that they aren't balancing on the horse's mouth

• I can get them to follow the horses Rhythm so that they aren't breaking their stride and evenness

• I can get the rider to breath so that both horse and rider can stay in a relaxed state of physical effort ing

• I can get the rider to learn how to steer with their legs so that they aren't pulling on the horses head

• I can get the rider to feel if the horses balance is in the shoulders or hindquarters so that the horse isn't dragging itself around with its shoulders

• I can get the rider to feel that the horse is relaxed in to and accepting the contact or lifting its mouth off or bracing against the contact and how to develop hands the horse can trust

• I can teach the rider how to use their seat that they don't have to use the bit.

And that's how I can tell a horse what to do. Not because I can physically manhandle and emotionally manipulate the horse, but I can see what their doing is hard and I can do my best to make their job easier so that it can be fun to learn and feel good to move.

There are a lot of reasons why your horse shouldn’t do what you want them to. But lot’s of reasons why we should build an environment designed to help them choose to do what we ask.

Register for the free Say YES to a happy willing horse masterclass, where I delve into how you can make that a reality with your horse.

Connection is more than just physical interactions

Our relationship with horses extends far beyond mere physical interactions. 

It encompasses the emotional and intellectual responses of our equine partners, forming the foundation of The Holistic Horse Handling Methodology. In this session, we explore the transformative power of this approach, highlighting the importance of understanding and connection over focusing solely on behaviours or compliance. Join us as we embark on a journey that celebrates the depth and richness of the horse-human bond.

The Holistic Horse Handling Methodology recognizes that we are in a profound relationship with our horses. It goes beyond the transactional aspect of giving commands and expecting obedience. Instead, it emphasises building a partnership based on trust, respect, and mutual understanding. By nurturing this bond, we create an environment that encourages the horse to willingly engage and collaborate with us.

Horses, like humans, experience a wide range of emotions. Acknowledging and addressing their emotional well-being is a fundamental aspect of The Holistic Horse Handling Methodology. By creating a supportive and empathetic environment, we foster emotional balance, allowing the horse to feel safe, relaxed, and confident. This emotional connection becomes the bedrock upon which effective training is built.

Horses possess remarkable intelligence and a natural inclination to learn and problem-solve. The Holistic Horse Handling Methodology embraces their intellectual capabilities by offering mentally stimulating activities and challenges. By engaging their minds, we tap into their curiosity and desire to participate actively in the training process. This approach not only enriches their experience but also deepens the bond between horse and handler.

The Holistic Horse Handling Methodology expands our perspective beyond the mere execution of desired behaviours. 

It emphasises the importance of clear and effective communication, not only in terms of specific tasks but also in understanding the horse's needs, desires, and individuality. By learning to listen attentively and respond sensitively to their cues, both subtle and overt, we create a language of connection and mutual understanding. This deeper level of communication enables us to address the horse's concerns, fears, and preferences, fostering a stronger and more harmonious partnership.

Mindfulness plays a vital role in the Holistic Horse Handling Methodology. It requires us to be fully present and attuned to the horse's physical and emotional state. By cultivating mindfulness, we develop a heightened sense of awareness, both of ourselves and the horse. This enables us to recognize and respond to their needs in the present moment, rather than being fixated on past or future outcomes. Mindfulness also allows us to approach training sessions with patience, compassion, and a genuine appreciation for the unique journey of each horse.

The Holistic Horse Handling Methodology invites us to embrace a deeper understanding of our equine partners. It acknowledges that effective training goes beyond behaviours alone and encompasses emotions, intellect, and meaningful communication. By prioritising trust, empathy, and connection, we create an environment that nurtures the horse's well-being and strengthens the bond we share. 

Loving the horse first with Amy from Amy Skinner Horsemanship

If you're a horse lover or owner, you know that horses can sometimes baffle us with their actions. 

They're more than just animals; they're our companions, and when their behaviour goes haywire, it's time to dig deeper. 

In this captivating conversation, Amy Skinner, a seasoned expert in horse rehabilitation, unravels the mysteries of horse behaviour, shedding light on the often-overlooked causes of their quirks (links to the episodes at the end of this blog).

Horses, strong and resilient as they are, can suffer from physical issues that affect their behaviour. Amy Skinner points out that problems like back pain and joint stiffness can turn a sweet horse into a grumpy one. Imagine if you were in constant discomfort – your performance would plummet. The same goes for horses. Recognizing and fixing these physical issues are crucial for improving their behaviour and happiness.

In our fast-paced world, we often forget the simple joys. Horses are social creatures. They thrive when they're out in the pasture, mingling with their buddies. Amy Skinner reminds us that neglecting this basic need can lead to stress, anxiety, and all sorts of difficult and sometimes dangerous behaviours.

“Stability and balance aren't just for gymnasts; they're critical for horse training too”, says Amy Skinner. Imagine a horse as a dancer, needing poise and equilibrium. To help your horse perform at its best, you must ride it with balance. Keep a steady seat and give clear cues, and you'll help your horse find its own balance during training.

Amy Skinner emphasises that you, the rider, hold a powerful sway over your horse's behaviour. How you communicate with your horse matters immensely. Confusing signals from you can leave your horse frustrated and acting out. To understand and fix horse behavioral issues, it's vital to grasp your role as a rider. Learn and practice a quiet seat, independent, balanced seat and quiet steady hands that your horse can trust and relax into to seek for direction, and you'll be on your way to our third pillar of connection training - physical integration.

In this chat, we've gone deep into horse behaviour with Amy Skinner. We've explored the hidden physical causes of quirks, from sore backs to the need for freedom and friends. Remember, you're like the dance partner to your horse – find your balance, and you'll help your horse perform beautifully.

As we continue our journey with Amy Skinner, we'll dive even further into the fascinating world of horse psychology. Understanding both the physical and behavioural sides of horse training will empower you to truly connect with your horse and bring out its best. 

It's a journey every horse enthusiast and owner should embark on.

Let's chat dominance theory

There's a persistent presence of the dominance theory, a methodology entrenched within the wider community of trainers and coaches. The premise is often cloaked in the guise of creating safe horses. 

However, a glaring truth remains: this approach, while aiming for safety, often lacks the development of a genuine sense of security for our equine companions. Furthermore, it neglects the profound beauty found in the cultivation of trust, confidence, and meaningful relationships between horses and humans.

The dominance theory has been a long-standing paradigm in horse training. Rooted in the belief that establishing oneself as the dominant figure in the horse-human relationship is the key to control and safety, it relies on the imposition of authority to dictate the horse's behaviour. This approach asserts that the human should assert dominance over the horse to command respect and ensure safety.

While on the surface, this might seem like a rational and effective way to manage a horse, it often overlooks the essence of what makes a partnership truly meaningful. The method fails to account for the emotional and mental well-being of the horse. By enforcing dominance, it tends to create an environment of fear and submission rather than one of trust and mutual understanding. 

The crucial oversight lies in the fact that while the dominance theory might offer immediate compliance, it rarely fosters a genuine sense of safety in horses. True safety is not just about having a horse obey commands out of fear; it's about nurturing an environment where the horse feels secure, understood, and valued.

Moreover, this approach overlooks the profound beauty and reward found in building relationships with horses based on trust and cooperation. It fails to acknowledge the extraordinary bond that emerges when a horse willingly engages in a task because it trusts its human partner.

The absence of a felt sense of safety for horses is a critical flaw in the dominance theory. Instead of instilling genuine trust and confidence, it often breeds an atmosphere of apprehension and uncertainty. Horses subjected to dominance-based training may comply out of fear, but they lack the ease and willingness to perform tasks because they feel secure and respected.

So, what's the alternative?

It's imperative to shift the focus from dominance to partnership. Cultivating a relationship built on trust, communication, and mutual understanding holds the key. By understanding the horse's natural behaviour and responding accordingly, we can create an environment where horses feel safe and are willing participants in their training.

This approach prioritises empathy, patience, and the development of a deep, symbiotic connection between horse and trainer. It acknowledges the horse's emotions and mental state, fostering an environment where the horse feels understood, secure, and valued. We call it the Holistic Horse Handling Methodology.

The dominance theory, although deeply rooted in traditional practices, often fails to provide genuine safety for horses. Embracing a more empathetic and partnership-based approach not only ensures a horse's safety but also unlocks the beauty of trust and confidence in the horse-human relationship. It's not about dominating; it's about partnering with these magnificent creatures to create a harmonious and mutually rewarding connection. 

We need to create a felt sense of safety in the training environment for both ourselves and our horses so that both ourselves and our horses have access to our social engagement system whereby the horse enjoys learning, asks to be ridden and looks after us. 

The entanglement of the nervous system in movement

We often think about the nerves as how they create movement but we don't think of how bundles of nerves can work synergistically and how switching one set on switches another set off.

We kind of talk about it when we talk about the differences of rest- and-digest and fight-or-flight, and sometimes we might get as far as the social engagement system, but we don't think about how they communicate to different muscles in movement, different thoughts and moods. 

Forward can come from a fear startle reflex, or fear to move away from consequences, or forward can come through play and praise. Although both seemingly achieve the objective of "forward", there is a subtle nuance not lost on a keen eye.

And that is one of the biggest differences noticed in Holistic Horse Handling Methodology as opposed to submission based training. All we have are the subtle nuances. The ones we're taught to ignore because we're too soft or anthropomorphising. 

All the best trainers can read the horses movement, nervous system and anticipate how they will behave like a book. But they don't explain what they're saying with their own movement, only what they are doing. 

The human body bringing the horses energy up in play vs in fear, whilst seemingly achieving the objective of "forward", is very different. It starts with an intention and a release of an emotional attachment to the outcome so we can allow the horse to be who they most are.

Some people think allowing a horse to be a horse is dangerous. 

But thinking you can physically control a horse through fear and submission is by far more dangerous - for you both.

If you are ready to start engaging your horse in enthused activity rather than through fear of consequences, click the button below to access the free “Say YES to a happy, willing horse” Masterclass

The biggest mistake equestrians make in training

There are 2 mistakes the conflicted equestrian makes in training when they lose their orientation with connection based work with their horse. I’m going to discuss these, but also share 3 tips to becoming a Holistic Horse Rider. 

Mistake 1: Emotional attachment to the outcome. 

This has been an ongoing and ever evolving theme in my life, where I am constantly letting go of my attachment to what the results look like. “This or something better”, is a fall back mantra I say to myself as the results in my mind don’t look quite the same as in real life!!

And this is so very normal. 

We ride the tide of having big audacious dreams and goals and get 6 weeks, 6 months, 6 years into working towards those goals to become frustrated that we haven’t achieved them. But that is because what we imagine the results of our work and effort to look like and what they look like in reality are often not the same. Especially if we are comparing ourselves to someone else's highlight reel. 

So we make our goals smaller, more achievable and fear dreaming big for failure and then get frustrated that we are stuck in the same place we were a year ago. 

Being able to show up every day to do the work, improve on yourself from yesterday without attachment to what the results will look like for you is an art. And it is the art of negotiating frustration and stagnation in training. It is mammal behaviour to move away from pain towards pleasure. Move away from what you don’t want towards what you do want. Sometimes we get stuck moving away from something we don’t want and it seems to chase us down. Sometimes we get stuck towards working towards a goal that seems impossible and it becomes scary to dream big. 

Become present. Be here now. Feel safe to relax. Take a moment with me. Breath into your body. What can you be grateful for right now. What can you look back on and reflect how much you’ve grown and learnt in being with the horse. How far have you come? Now ask for and project more of that. 

It doesn’t always look like olympic gold medals, single stride tempi changes and pirouettes. More often than not it looks like a light workout (if we are lucky to have the time) that has the potential to exercise our mind and body and replenish our cup. This can be enough if you let it. 

Audacious goals can be fun to work towards when we have the time, energy and capacity to commit to them but also can just be being with our horses. It's essential to exercise patience and respect your horse's unique timeline for learning. Each horse has its distinct personality and learning curve. Embrace that pace, and you'll find the journey becoming smoother and more cooperative. Remember, the ultimate goal isn't just training a horse but creating a partnership based on trust and collaboration.

Mistake #2: Inconsistency

Another widespread misstep is inconsistency in training. Horses thrive on routine and predictability not only in their day to day routine but also in how they are expected to respond to a cue. Disregarding these elements can confuse them and create resistance.

Investing in a training journal (or Holistic Horse Handling Program where we have the shaping plans done for you) is critical to having a horse that trusts you and is confident in how to answer you, especially if you have a horse that falls into the protector personality quadrant. Deciding one day to change how you would like your horse to respond to a cue just creates disconnect and confusion. This is why most trainers want you to follow their (method). Because their method is how they are going to layer cues on top of cues to create a more complex language. Deciding to change the “method” or language part way through to working towards your goal because you think its not working is a sure fire way to not only have you going backwards in working towards your goal but also getting an anxious, confused or grumpy horse.

Trust me I know! I had been working on the spanish walk with asking Fitty to target the whip and changed my mind and decided I wanted him to back off the cue to work him at liberty. And it did not go down well! It broke his trust in me and caused further relational rupture that needed repairing. That is why in our Holistic Horse Handling Program we have strategic and intentional lesson/shaping plans that help you to build out a language with your horse. 

Without knowing what problems you will come across down the road you can find yourself getting stuck because you don’t know how to communicate the navigation through the challenge. That is why we share a universal language that most horses understand to get you from the basics of horse husbandry right through to the ridden athlete. Your horse needs clear, reliable, consistent cues and expectations. This sets the stage for a sense of security and trust, significantly enhancing your horse's willingness to cooperate.

Now that we've discussed the pitfalls, let's shine a light on the lessons learned and the road to better horsemanship.

One of the most valuable lessons in working with horses is effective communication. Instead of immediately delving into training, invest time in developing a shared language of cues and signals that your horse can understand. By sharpening your communication skills, you'll notice your horse responding with grace and cooperation.

Patience is truly a virtue in horsemanship. Instead of chasing instant results, embrace the journey of growth and development. Be adaptable and open to learning as much from your horse as you teach them. This approach creates an environment where your horse feels valued, reducing antagonism and increasing cooperation.

Trust is the bedrock of a prosperous partnership with horses. It's essential to nurture trust in both directions. Trust your horse to grasp your cues and signals, while simultaneously ensuring your horse trusts you to provide guidance, security, and care.

The journey of working with horses is a continuous process of growth and understanding. Rather than attempting to unravel or unlock some kind of magical secret, concentrate on learning from your experiences and embracing the valuable lessons along the way. By prioritizing patience, effective communication, and trust, you can enhance your skills and develop a partnership with your horse grounded in cooperation and harmony. 

Join us on this voyage of self-improvement in the equestrian world, and let's work together to be the best partners we can be for our equine companions.

How well do you speak horse?

The essence of a true partnership lies not in what we can make a horse do, but rather in the quality of our communication and the emotional connection we establish. But there are many pitfalls and misconceptions surrounding horse communication. Join us as we explore the transformative power of meaningful conversations with our equine companions and learn how to avoid common communication mistakes that hinder the development of a harmonious relationship.

Going Beyond Actions: Many riders tend to focus solely on the physical actions they can make their horses perform, such as executing a correct canter lead, a perfectly round circle or a square halt. 

While technical skills are important, they should not overshadow the depth of connection that can be achieved through genuine communication. True horse communication goes beyond actions; it involves understanding, listening, and responding to the horse's subtle cues and emotions. Communication is in itself, and also a part of, a holistic methodology in horse handling.

The Language of Equine Communication: Horses possess their own unique language of communication, primarily expressed through body language, expression of the mood on a given day and an unconscious expression of how their nervous system is engaging with their environment and us. 

By familiarising ourselves with their natural communication methods, we can bridge the gap between human and equine understanding. This involves observing their posture, ear position, tail movement, and other subtle signals, allowing us to decipher their thoughts and feelings. When we acknowledge and respond appropriately to these cues, we establish a solid, holistic foundation of trust and respect.

Emotional Connection and the Power of Feel: Effective communication with horses requires more than physical commands; it necessitates an emotional connection based on trust and empathy. 

Horses are incredibly perceptive beings, capable of sensing our intentions and emotions. By cultivating a calm and centred presence, we can convey our intentions clearly and authentically. This creates an atmosphere of mutual trust and understanding, enabling the horse to feel safe, respected, and willing to engage in the conversation.

Listening and Responding: Successful horse communication relies on active listening and responsive feedback. It involves giving the horse a voice and acknowledging their input. By being receptive to their responses, we can adjust our communication approach accordingly. 

This reciprocal dialogue encourages a sense of partnership and empowers the horse to actively participate in the conversation, fostering a deeper connection and mutual cooperation.

Common Communication Mistakes to Avoid: In the pursuit of effective horse communication, it is essential to be aware of common mistakes that can hinder progress. These include using excessive force or pressure, relying solely on aids and cues without considering the horse's perspective, and lacking patience and sensitivity. By recognizing and avoiding these pitfalls, we can cultivate a more nuanced and compassionate approach to communication, allowing for a more enriching and harmonious partnership.

True communication goes far beyond mere actions and commands. It revolves around understanding, empathy, and connection. By embracing the language of equine communication, actively listening, and responding authentically, we can foster a bond with our horses that transcends obedience and transforms into a deep, mutual understanding. 

Let us embark on a journey of meaningful conversations with our equine partners, where the true beauty of horse communication unfolds.

Missed the original Podcast episode? Catch it below:

Holistic Horse Riding - the Next Level Riding for Compassionate Horse Owners

Are you prepared to take a leap into the world of Holistic Horse Riding? 

In a recent (ok, a few months ago) episode of the First Do No Harm Podcast , we delved into the captivating domain of dressage and the remarkable connection that can be established between a rider and their equine companion - and you loved it. So today, we are diving into the critical aspects that contribute to fostering emotional resilience in your horse.

That art of dressage can get lost to percentages and marks, ribbons and rosettes and the opinions of some excellent judges and sometimes, some not so good judges. At its core it is about maintaining the horses versatility and usability as a ridden horse. “Training for dressage” should improve the overall mental, physical and emotional soundness of the horse. When we focus on the pressure of our goals, this foundation can get lost in the opinions of peers, trainers, coaches and judges (however well meaning they can be). 

Dressage, often described as "the art of horse training," is an intricate discipline demanding precision, patience, and a profound comprehension of equine psychology. It's not merely about instructing your horse to execute a sequence of graceful movements; it's about crafting a harmonious partnership that gives permission to the horse to express itself through movement. When your horse is not enjoying the experience of being ridden and its movement we end up trying to control their self expression to avoid bucking, rearing, bolting and jacking up. So even though you may be getting comments like more forward, more frame, more bend, more impulsion, what the judge is really saying is how can you increase your horses willingness and enjoyment for being ridden. 

Let's delve into the fundamental principles that will make your dressage journey smoother and more fulfilling.

Trust is the cornerstone of dressage. Without trust, the bond between you and your horse cannot evolve. Instead of trying to unlock your horse's potential, focus on nurturing a trusting rapport. This involves spending quality time with your horse, comprehending their distinct personality, and providing a secure and safe atmosphere. All of us have permission to stop and relax if they don’t know how to respond correctly to the aid or the rider loses balance or overuses the bit pressure. Where this is commonly seen as resistance, we see this as our horses asking us to work on this particular skill set before they ask for more. 

Successful communication is the linchpin of dressage. Often we are twisting and contorting our bodies into weird positions trying to get our horse to bend or leg yield etc. Only serving to further disrupt the horse's balance. This is why in our holistic horse riding program we teach you how to layer those cues on top of each other to create language from a balanced, centred, independent seat. Your horse will be able to reciprocate the with more expression in their movement

Dressage is a voyage, not a destination. 

It mandates steadfast training and unwavering patience. Approach your interactions with horses as an ongoing process of refinement, akin to a master craftsperson honing their artistry. Your horse will discern your dedication, which, in turn, aids in fostering their emotional resilience.

Emotional resilience in horses derives from a robust and trusting alliance with their rider. Instead of plunging into training techniques, cultivate emotional resilience by ensuring that your horse feels secure, supported, and understood. This approach will lead to your horse being more amenable to collaboration, making dressage less of a daunting endeavour.

Holistic Horse Riding acknowledges not only the horse's physical soundness but also the competitive edge of the horse comes first from their emotional and mental soundness. The emotional resilience to maintain relaxation through changing comp environments as well as the foundations of competition quality movement is in the horses mental state of relaxation. This also sets us up for horses that can potentially stay sound for a lifetime and not break down by the time they are 10.

As Holistic Horse Riders, we notice that movement is medicine and we want our horses in that sweet flow state. Knowing how sensitive our horses' nervous system is to ours, when we are engaging in the art of dance with our horses we need to find that place in ourselves as well. We can communicate movement to our horses by engaging them in conversation and dance with our body. 

To deepen your expertise and proficiency in holistic horse riding, join us in our say yes masterclass. In our masterclass, we'll dig into the nuances of congruence and connection based training and provide pragmatic insights for honing your dressage skills. 

Dressage is more than the mere act of riding a horse; it's about nurturing a profound connection and understanding with your equine partner and expressing it through an integration of movement. Instead of making it sound like unlocking a hidden secret, prioritise the establishment of trust, nurturing a felt sense of safety, and striking a harmonious balance. Together, we can make the journey of dressage not just smoother but also more gratifying for both you and your horse. 

Ready to become a Holistic Horse Rider? We introduced a new riding segment into our Holistic Horse HAndling Program - taking Relaxation, Compassionate Leadership and Communication into the saddle! 

Behaviour vs Values

I can't make him be the horse you want him to be

I can't make him be the horse I want him to be 

I can only allow him to be who he is

My biggest fear as a horse trainer was the future of the horse. The industry is such a tough place for a horse and even the good ones - the best trained, the most willing and obedient horse - can find themselves at the doggers or broken down and abandoned in a paddock.

The future of the horses as a trainer was always out of my control and I would bring fear to the session for their safety when they were no longer under my care.

I saw what happened to horses as they age. When they outlived their usefulness. Or when they couldnt be the horse the owner had in mind; I would fear for their future. 

I was scared for them and for their future. That is not a good place to be in mentally as a trainer. It was not helpful to the horses being the best version of themselves. 

And that's where the difference between behaviours and values are. Demanding respect and building connection. When you trick train a horse for a certain set of behaviours you can have them cued in but it doesn't give them any life skills. 

Building a foundation of connection during the process of teaching cues, you also offer a landscape of coping strategies for life, pressure and stress, dealing with humans, all of which builds trust and confidence in you.

When the connection is built the horse responds to you because they trust what you are asking of them. 

Without connection they only respond through fear of consequences.

Something that I still hear regularly when I was a kid, and still from riders of my generation, is:

“It wouldn't help the horse to only be able to be handled by one person; the building of connection approach is no good for the horse because that wouldn't work for the next person that you sold them too. Don't pat on them, don't treat them, don't love them.”

But that's only an argument if you plan to sell your horse. 

That isn't the point of a heart horse. They are with you until the end. Or at the end. You are there for them to walk them over the bridge and say see you in the next life.

I know what's in this life for a horse and the only way I can train now is to know I'm working with people who are seeking their heart horse. Because for them we can build out a beautiful relationship, which is always far more meaningful than the repertoire of tricks they can perform.

What is acceptance of contact?

There is a delicate dance between the rider and the horse.

A dance of communication, connection and movement. 

In a recent episode of the First Do No Harm Podcast, I dove into a subtle yet crucial distinction: the difference between acceptance of contact and submission to the bit. Let's peel back the layers and uncover the intricacies that allow horses to move more functionally, promoting long-term soundness.

In the equestrian sport, it's a common mistake to use "acceptance" and "submission" interchangeably when discussing a horse's response to the bit. But these terms hold distinct meanings within the complex conversation between horse and rider.

Acceptance of contact is like an invitation — a gentle dialogue where the horse can feel safe to relax into and seek direction from the piece of metal in their mouth. It's a dance where the horse has trust and confidence in the rider's hands, recognizing the rider's influence without sacrificing its natural grace. It's not about forced compliance but a harmonious partnership where both parties find a rhythm that enhances movement.

On the flip side, when we establish submission to the bit, the horse can only seek the release of pressure by going behind it. Our hands are unyielding and unforgiving for the soft tissues of the gums, tongue and lips. When we talk about pressure release, we are creating a pressure that the horse seeks the release of. When we have contact, there is no release of pressure. Why would the horse hold the bit and our hands in their mouth with trust, confidence and relaxation?. This distinction is vital; true acceptance cannot exist without relaxation, trust and confidence in the hand. Why would your horse relax into a piece of metal and seek your hand with trust and confidence for direction?

This insightful episode takes us through the nuanced differences between acceptance and submission. Real-life examples and expert insights unravel the intricacies that allow a horse to move more functionally. It's not about imposing terms on our equine partners; it's about understanding the subtleties that contribute to their physical well-being and overall soundness.

The heart of our exploration lies in how these subtleties contribute to the long-term soundness of our equine companions. Fostering acceptance instead of demanding submission creates an environment where the horse can not only move freely, building strength and resilience over time but has permission to express itself through movement. It's a journey that goes beyond immediate compliance, leading to a partnership founded on trust.

Imagine the horse and rider engaged in a ballet—a dance where the 2 bodies intertwine in melody and harmony. In this dance, the horse finds freedom in movement, and the rider becomes a guide rather than a controller. Together, they create a symphony of motion that nurtures not only physical well-being but also the bond between them.

The takeaway is clear: acceptance and submission are not interchangeable in the realm of equine movement. Understanding this distinction allows us to cultivate a partnership with our horses built on trust, communication, and the celebration of their innate grace. Join us in this exploration, and let's step into a world where ridden work paves the way for long-term soundness and a harmonious connection between horse and rider.

Assessing Soundness and Functional Movement in our Horses with Ansley from AB Equine Therapy Part 2

Ever wondered if your horse is being naughty and you need to push them through its methods are truly effective or if there's a missing piece to the puzzle? Many of us find ourselves resorting to pushing our horse through issues, relying on forceful techniques and equipment to enhance our horses' performance. But what if, instead of helping, these methods are causing more harm than good, leading to behavioural issues and discomfort? In this episode, we venture into the realm of horse training, challenging preconceptions and offering alternative approaches that prioritise our equine companions' well-being and partnership.

Exploring Misconceptions:

Diving deep into the world of horse training, we uncover common mistakes made by well-intentioned enthusiasts. The use of draw reins and other restrictive aids is a prevalent practice, often believed to elevate a horse's performance. However, we unveil the truth behind these techniques, shedding light on their hidden consequences. The goal is to encourage a shift from forceful methods to those that foster understanding, respect, and a genuine partnership.

Key Takeaways:

1. Unintended Consequences: Forceful training methods and restrictive aids can have hidden consequences, affecting both the physical and mental well-being of our horses. Teaching the horse to block and brace contact and just give to it doesn’t support engaging the core and diaphragm for healthy movement. 

2. Recognizing Discomfort: An often-overlooked aspect is the ability to recognize signs of discomfort and pain in horses. By honing our understanding of equine communication, we can address issues before they escalate. We can’t always expect our horses to work with a smile on their face but if we consistently notice an ear twitch or grimace to a specific movement we can safely assume there is pain there. 

3. Alternative Approaches:The episode introduces alternative training approaches centred around communication, trust, and mutual respect. These approaches challenge conventional “push them through it” training methods, offering a path to a harmonious partnership.

4. Assessing Individual Needs: Practical tips are shared for assessing each horse's unique needs, emphasising the importance of tailoring training methods for their comfort and willingness to cooperate.

In the quest for effective horse training, this episode aims to reshape the narrative. It empowers enthusiasts to rethink their approaches and prioritise the well-being of their equine partners. By fostering understanding and partnership, we hope to usher in a new era of horse training—one that goes beyond tradition to create a positive, respectful, and genuinely effective relationship between rider and horse.

Join us in this transformative journey as we challenge the norms of horse training. Together, let's pave the way for a future where our equine companions thrive not under force but through understanding, trust, and a partnership built on respect. It's time to revolutionise our approach and prioritise the true well-being of our beloved horses.

Did you know that Ansley was recently on our First Do No Harm Podcast?

Assessing Soundness and Functional Movement in our Horses with Ansley from AB Equine Therapy Part 1

Have you ever found yourself perplexed by your horse's behaviors, despite diligently addressing their physical concerns? Many conflicted equestrians grapple with the challenge of comprehending their equine companion's actions beyond the realm of physical ailments. Overlooking the intricacies of their psychological well-being can result in persistent training issues and hinder overall equine welfare. If you've exhausted various treatments without seeing the desired behavioral improvements, it's time to delve into the often-neglected realm of equine psychology.

Achieving a harmonious relationship with your horse necessitates a holistic approach that considers both physical and psychological aspects. While treating physical ailments is undoubtedly essential, neglecting the psychological dimension can leave a significant void in your understanding of your horse. It's imperative to recognize horses as complex beings, acknowledging the interplay between their mental, emotional, and physical states.

Understanding your horse's behavior involves more than just scratching the surface; it requires a nuanced approach. In lieu of clichéd terms like "unlocking their true potential," let's explore practical techniques that provide a deeper insight into their actions. Developing a keen observation of body language, recognizing behavioral patterns, and understanding responses to various stimuli are invaluable skills that can enrich your training methods and strengthen your connection with your horse.

Trust is the bedrock of any successful relationship, and the bond between humans and horses is no exception. We'll delve into strategies for building trust and confidence in your horse, establishing a solid foundation for increasing congruence and athletic performance. The common mistake most conflicted equestrians make is taking an exercise and asking “how can I make my horse do this”. The art of the equestrian is not in what we can make our horse do but in the quality of conversation we have with our horses in the process of asking them to do it. 

We don’t “fix” their personality. There is nothing to be fixed. We can support them through the inevitable challenges they are faced with in training and how each unique horse manages themselves through these challenges is different. How we support our horse through learning a new exercise is how we build trust, faith and confidence in each other. Giving our horses tools to overcome achievable challenges builds their confidence not only in themselves but also in us. 

Oftentimes when I’m teaching I’ll draw on my students real life experiences to help them better understand how best to engage their horses in training. Teachers can relate to horses like their students, parents to their children and children to their friends. Sometimes our horses give us behaviours that we don’t like and are scared of but that doesn’t mean the behaviours are wrong and they are being naughty. It can simply be that is a very normal response to their current situation and our job is to support them in making better choices.

What does a better choice for your horse look like? 

Why would your horse choose to do what you are asking of them?

How can you ask this thing from them so that they receive the invitation better and are more willing?

How could being ridden be of benefit to your horse?

Why would they seek the bit for direction and relax into bit pressure?

These are all questions that are not easy to answer and as an individual you will have to find your own way that feels right for you. We share our answers to this in our holistic equestrian program. When we are pressured into answering these questions with another persons perspective we lose sight of why we work with the horse and what we want from the relationship. You take on that other trainer/coach/instructors lens on life, their fears, their limiting beliefs, their concerns for your safety.

There is a sweet spot we can find in self regulated and co regulated relationship where we have the psychological safety to communicate what we need to achieve the task laid out. Inevitably we will be faced with our own fears, limiting beliefs, internal conflicts and we will have to negotiate them to find peace and congruence within ourselves before we ask it of the horse. 

That is why operant conditioning doesn’t work in isolation without being able to read the horses emotional response to the ask. The idea that any animal will just say yes because we escalate pressure or dispense treats sounds inviting but doesn’t work in reality. Hearing our horses communicate their need doesn’t mean that we won’t ask them to do hard things. It just means we have to learn how to listen and genty stretch the comfort zone. Accomplishing things that feel hard can be enriching, engaging and build confidence. The mistake we can make is asking things of the horse that both we and they don’t have the physical conditioning, understanding and emotional resilience to achieve. Then we are overfacing ourselves and our horses and lose trust, confidence and faith in each other. 

It can feel like a challenging space to navigate. And you can do hard things. Small achievable tasks, with an immense sense of task achievement. Finish on a positive note feeling like you could have done more.

If you’re finding yourself stuck on getting a body worker out on repeat to address the same issues make sure you listen to our interview with ansley from abequinetherapy as she shares what is feasible for your body worker to address and what you need to do with your horse between sessions to better support their soundness and physical and emotional well being because their body keeps the score of the quality of mental relaxation applied within their training program. Recognizing the dual significance of physical and psychological aspects, implementing practical techniques for a more profound understanding, and establishing a foundation of trust will pave the way for a more enriching and fulfilling connection with your equine companion that helps build soundness into your horses training (so you need the body worker out less!). Prepare to embark on a journey that transcends conventional training methods, unlocking the secrets to a more profound equine-human bond.

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