Assessing Soundness and Functional Movement in our Horses with Ansley from AB Equine Therapy

In the intricate world of equine care, ensuring the soundness and functional movement of our beloved horses is a journey that goes beyond routine checkups—it's a commitment to their health, happiness, and overall performance. Today, I invite you to join me in a conversation with Ansley from AB Equine Therapy, where we explore the nuanced art of assessing these essential aspects without delving into the complexities of decoding mysterious cues.

Ansley gracefully guides us through the significance of assessing equine soundness, emphasising its pivotal role in preemptively addressing issues that could impact our horses' long-term well-being. This isn't about unlocking hidden secrets but rather about keen observation and understanding the language our horses speak through their movements.

In our discussion, Ansley unravels the importance of keen observation when evaluating equine soundness. It's not about deciphering cryptic messages; it's about appreciating the subtleties in their behaviour and movements. From the tilt of the head to the rhythm of their gait, each nuance tells a story—a story Ansley helps us interpret with a practised eye.

Ansley introduces us to the concept of functional movement assessment, a departure from rigid checklists. This approach embraces the holistic nature of a horse's movements, recognizing the interconnectedness of their body systems. It's an art form that paints a picture of the horse's well-being through their every step and gesture.

In our conversation, Ansley places a spotlight not only on the practitioner's expertise but on the beautiful collaboration between the horse and the assessor. It's a dance where the horse communicates its well-being, and the practitioner interprets these signals with respect and skill—a partnership that deepens the bond between horse and human.

In her wisdom, Ansley advocates for individualised care. Horses, much like us, are unique beings with distinct needs. A one-size-fits-all approach falls short, and Ansley encourages us to tailor solutions that consider each horse's conditions, preferences, and personal history.

For horse owners eager to actively contribute to their horses' well-being, Ansley shares practical tips. From incorporating diverse terrains into exercise routines to recognizing subtle shifts in behaviour, these insights empower owners to play an integral role in promoting soundness and functional movement in their equine companions.

As our conversation unfolds, it becomes evident that assessing soundness and functional movement is not a mysterious process but a collaborative journey between horse and practitioner. Ansley's approach, grounded in intuition and collaboration, enriches the well-being of our horses and strengthens the connection between human and equine.

In the realm of equine therapy, Ansley stands as a guide, steering us away from the notion of decoding enigmatic cues. Instead, she invites us to embrace a more intuitive and collaborative approach to assessing soundness—a journey that not only enhances the well-being of our horses but also deepens the bond between human and equine

Did you know that Ansley was recently on our First Do No Harm Podcast?

Our biggest takaways for

As the year draws to a close and the horses at the Equestrian Spirit School of Holistic Riding prepare for a well-deserved break, it's that time when reflection becomes the compass guiding us through the past months. The question echoes in the crisp air, "Where did the year go, what milestones did we achieve, and how can we enhance our endeavors in the upcoming year?"

These musings extend beyond the stables, encompassing not just the equine partners but also you – the riders, enthusiasts, and fellow participants in the equestrian journey.

This juncture provides an opportune moment to share our most significant take-home lessons for 2023. It's a lesson not just for the horses but a shared insight that we, as a community, have garnered throughout the year. In this episode of the First Do No Harm Podcast, I delve into some of my favorite training methodologies and exercises shared by our esteemed podcast guests. These insights have not only enriched our understanding but have also found practical application in the holistic approach we uphold at the school.

As ever, a standout lesson that resonates profoundly is the emphasis on mindfulness in training. In an era where how fast we can turn out a winning show horse often takes precedence, slowing down and fostering a mindful connection with the horses is a pivotal aspect of our training philosophy. This approach is a reminder that every interaction with a horse is an opportunity for mutual understanding and growth. It's not just about the destination, the ribbons and the accolades; it's about savoring the journey and appreciating the nuances of each moment.

Another invaluable lesson derived from our podcast discussions revolves around the significance of individualized training. Horses, like humans, are unique beings with distinct personalities and learning styles. Tailoring our training methods to suit each horse's temperament and preferences is transformative. This personalized approach has not only enhanced the horses' receptiveness but has also deepened the bond between riders and their equine counterparts. In listening to our horses needs we develop more empathy in our riding and expectations for ourselves and our horses

Conversations inevitably circle back to groundwork exercises. Not because we need a range of tricks up our sleeve to perform to prove ourselves to others but because it is easiest to build a felt sense of safety for both horse and rider on the ground and we can read their responses and build more clarity into our cues on the ground as well. Groundwork sessions are instrumental in fostering communication and building trust. These exercises, rooted in respect and clear communication, transcend the traditional notions of dominance in training. They exemplify the power of collaboration and partnership in achieving desired outcomes.

As we bid adieu to 2023, our journey is not just a reflection of the past but a roadmap for the future. The lessons learned pave the way for an enriched and enlightened approach in the coming year. It's not about sweeping transformations but about subtle shifts in perspective and a commitment to continuous improvement.

So, what's in store for you in the upcoming year? How can you integrate these lessons into your equestrian endeavors? The beauty of the equestrian journey lies in its ever-evolving nature, and as we embrace the lessons of 2023, we look forward to a year of growth, connection, and shared wisdom.

The biggest take-home lesson for 2023 is a collective realization – a recognition that our equestrian journey is a tapestry woven with shared insights, individual growth, and a commitment to the well-being of both horse and rider. As the ponies take their well-deserved vacation, we embark on a moment of reflection, gratitude, and anticipation for the chapters that await in the new year.

I’m scared to jump

After taking herself over a jump during her warm up a couple of times, my student turned to me and said “I'm scared to jump.”

“Good," I said. 

She frowned. “Why is that good?”

For context my group riders ride in open order not head-to-tail follow the leader. It's not a good business model but it is a good rider development model. The riders are far more responsible for the quality of communication with the horse, softness of the aids and understand what is required of them to warm their horse up properly for work. So this rider has popped herself over the jump a couple of times as she warmed up and her horse has picked up speed and scared her. 

So why did I say good?

Because this was her second time on this particular horse that she knows is far more sensitive than she's used to and when she was warming up she couldn't stop him and hasn't developed acceptance of contact with him. But she blew through all those cues without thought and jumped anyway. 

So I said it's a good thing you're scared. You jumped a jump when you couldn't stop your horse or slow them down on approach. That's the right thing to be scared of. You should have paid more attention to that before you jumped.

This is a great lesson for a rider to learn and that's why i said to her it was good she was scared because she has stopped herself and can refine her training before trying again. 

Fear isn't always the enemy. Some of our fears are legitimate and worth paying attention to.

Everything that has scared me enough as a rider to put the skids on has been a huge and important lesson for the development of my riding. Like having a horse broncing as you mount, having a horse fall over and crush my foot because I rushed her training and she lost her balance.

All lessons I could’ve learnt and should've learnt as a beginner but I was in a rush to get through that process too.

Embracing the Journey: 3 Years of Holistic Horse Handling

In the enchanting realm of equestrianism, the bond between horse and handler is an intricate dance of trust, communication, and mutual respect. This captivating tale recounts the transformative journey of a dedicated equestrian and her equine companion over a span of three years. Through the lens of holistic horsemanship, we witness the power of a patient and empathetic approach in nurturing a deep understanding between human and horse, highlighting the importance of harmony in this extraordinary partnership.

Within the realm of horsemanship, trust is the cornerstone of any successful relationship. Over the course of three years, this remarkable journey showcases the process of developing trust and connection between horse and handler. The handler's patient and empathetic approach, accompanied by a genuine willingness to listen to her equine partner, lays the foundation for their extraordinary bond. With each interaction, we witness the blossoming of a unique relationship, as the horse learns to trust and be vulnerable with their handler and the handler gains a deeper understanding of her horse's needs, fears, and desires.

The Holistic Horse Handling Methodology delves beyond traditional methods, advocating for a language of understanding that transcends words. This captivating journey captures the subtle cues and gestures that form the basis of this remarkable communication. The handler's ability to interpret her horse's body language and respond accordingly is truly awe-inspiring. Through this intuitive connection, they embark on a dance where trust and harmony prevail. Moments of breakthroughs, small triumphs, and quiet achievements are beautifully showcased, demonstrating the transformative power of listening to the horse's voice and allowing it to guide the path.

Beyond the remarkable partnership portrayed, this three-year journey also serves as a catalyst for personal growth. It becomes a voyage of self-discovery, pushing the boundaries of the handler and fostering resilience. As she navigates the challenges presented by the horse, she learns valuable lessons about patience, empathy, and the power of gentle persistence. This enchanting voyage of horsemanship showcases parallel paths of growth, where both the handler and her equine companion find solace, understanding, and a profound connection that transcends traditional equestrian techniques.

This extraordinary tale of 3 years of The Holistic Horse Handling Methodology is a testament to the transformative power of building trust and connection in equestrian relationships. Through patience, empathy, and a deep commitment to understanding, the handler and her horse forge a bond that defies convention. It serves as a reminder of the profound connection that can be established when humans and horses engage in a language of trust and harmony. Truly, this journey is an inspiration to all equestrians and lovers of these magnificent creatures, highlighting the beauty and wisdom they have to offer.

Learning the principles…

It’s worth it to learn the principles of training theory, so that you have the confidence to work with your horse whether it's your first horse or twenty first horse.

Objective:

I just want to ride my horse.

When I was in my teens it was my opinion that if you had to lunge your horse to ride you didn't know how to ride. 

Subsequently I spent a lot of my riding riding out the bucks and behaviours before the horses "settled in to work".

It wasn't until I started my professional career and backing horses that I truly understand the value of groundwork. 

Horses weren't born into this world knowing how to be ridden, someone had to teach them. They don't just have the resilience and emotional agility to confidently learn and navigate the stress of learning, someone had to teach them. They don't just implicitly trust a human - someone had to teach them why trusting humans are of value to them. 

They don't just know how to safely communicate things like pain, discomfort, misunderstanding, stress, fear, someone had to teach them. And quite often people don't teach them, they just expect the horse to know, resulting in escalated reactive behaviours like biting, kicking, charging, pushing, bucking, bolting and rearing.

And this was the problem I had. I had grown up riding educated horses that knew how to look after their riders in a riding school and just expected my horses to know what to do and look after me. But I didn't have the tools to teach that. They weren't taught to me in a riding school or clinics or pony club. 

It was when I started backing horses that I found out the biggest skill I was lacking was how to listen. It is in the listening we learn how best to work with our horses and we learn to listen on the ground. 

It is very hard to compassionately and whole heartedly learn to listen when we are on the horse’s back. When we are on the horse we want them listening to us! The fear, vulnerability, and potential to fall off makes riding the worst place to learn how to listen to your horse.

On the ground we can develop the psychological safety for our horse to tell us what it needs to take that instruction. 

• Does it need a clearer instruction, 

• Does it need more confidence to lead, 

• Do they need to practice working through their frustration? 

There is a lot required of the horse to confidently look after us on their back, balance themselves and us and take direction from us while physically being in the lead, taking direction from the application of metal to their mouth and whips and spurs on their body.

This is why our Holistic Horse Handling Program is key to develop a confident horse the enjoys learning, looks after us and asks to be ridden.

• We can negotiate the dynamics of our relationship 

• We can develop the psychological safety for our horse to say no and navigate how best to transform the no to a yes.

• We can develop other tools other than push them through it and escalate pressure.

• We get to visually see their body language and facial expressions so that we can better read the different types of resistances and why. 

• We can allow them to warm up and move their body before asking them to carry us.

• We can develop the type of relationship we want with our horse under saddle on the ground first and translate to the saddle. 

The program focuses on:

•  consent. Does your horse agree to the ask?

• congruence. Does the horse agree to the ask internally and not just because of fear of punishment and reprimand

• does the horse have the emotional maturity to navigate the inevitable internal resistance to work they will come up against (why would your horse want to work and effort in the first place)

• does your horse know how to seek direction and ask questions or tell you they don't understand (do you know how to differentiate behaviours that are work evasion and lack of understanding)

There is so much to learn about our horses on the ground. Even though you may just want to ride, you don't want to ride a confused, scared horse that doesn't know how take the lead into situations that make it anxious or seek direction and support from their rider. 

Do the work on the ground so that you have the horse you want to ride when it comes time to ride.

Your Horse’s Rhythm

Horses, those majestic and graceful creatures, have a special connection with us humans. Yet, there's something not often talked about, something that matters a lot in this connection - it's your horse's rhythm. 

Every horse has its rhythm - a unique way of moving and being. It's like their own language. If you want to connect with your horse, you need to understand and match their rhythm. First you go with the horse, then your horse goes with you, then you go together as a team. 

For beginners, it's like learning a new language. Experienced riders know that a horse's rhythm isn't a fixed thing; it changes based on things like breed, education, physical development and conditioning, mental tension, balance and so much more. Understanding these details helps you communicate better with your horse.

The common mistake a lot of equestrians make is trying to conform their horses rhythm and balance to their feel, rather than developing a feel for their horses natural rhythm and balance and adapting to it. Even more so, if you are riding multiple horses, try to make all the horses feel the same. It can make your horse uncomfortable and even hurt them. Think about a dance partner that is trying to force your stride to theirs and add to that, you are the one carrying them, trying to balance – it's awkward, right? Pushing your horse too hard can strain their muscles and joints, which might lead to long-term problems.

Ignoring their rhythm affects your horse's performance. Their stride might be rushed, tense and on the forehand if you try to push them more forward out of their rhythm or sluggish and lack lustre if you can’t inspire effort from them. It is the constant lesson of the half halt. How do you get active, forward, efforting working paces that also have relaxation and swing? How do you call your horses' balance back in without pulling their mouth and putting them on the forehand? This can be frustrating for both of you and take away the joy of riding and it is a very common place for every horse and rider to get stuck in. 

Now, let's get practical. The first step is to watch and learn. Spend time with your horse, watch how they move, breathe, and react to things. This will help you get a feel for their rhythm. Matching steps and in hand are our 2 favourite groundwork exercises to help our riders fall into better sync with their horses. 

Once you know their rhythm, you can adjust your riding to match it. If your horse has a slow, steady rhythm, don't rush them. If they're full of energy, you have to be careful not to brace and grab their mouth.

Communication is key. The secret to riding is setting up the horse to think about what you are asking them to do and then choose what you are asking them to do. For example, if you want your horse to slow down so you pull their mouth, they aren’t going to think about slowing down, they are going to think about the piece of metal that is pulling in their mouth and react instinctively. How can you set your horse up with your seat and communication to slow down first before asking them to slow down? Listen to how they respond and adapt your riding accordingly. When you and your horse are in rhythm, riding becomes a beautiful dance between two friends.

Ignoring your horse's rhythm can make them uncomfortable and affect their performance. By following these practical steps to connect with your horse's rhythm, you'll transform your riding experience. It's all about being aware, adapting, and communicating. When you and your horse move to the same rhythm, riding becomes a joyful partnership. Join us on this journey, and you'll discover how rhythm can be your secret weapon to achieve harmony with your horse.

What is willingness?

When it comes to training horses, the concepts of willingness and submission play a vital role in establishing a harmonious partnership between horse and rider. By adopting holistic horse handling skills, we can create an environment that nurtures these qualities, allowing for effective and compassionate training methods. In this blog post, we will explore the significance of willingness and submission in horse training and discuss practical approaches to implement holistic horse handling techniques for optimal results.

Understanding Willingness and Submission:

Willingness is the foundation of a successful partnership with our horses. It refers to the horse's readiness and eagerness to engage in the training process, displaying a cooperative attitude. Willingness is fostered through trust, clear communication, and positive reinforcement techniques. On the other hand, submission is created through a power over relationship dynamic which damages the psychological safety to communicate when needs are going unmet. A horse that can’t control its emotions can’t control its behaviour and a horse that doesn’t have the psychological safety and communication pathways to share that their needs are unmet become emotionally charged. 

Holistic Horse Handling: A Comprehensive Approach:

Holistic horse handling emphasizes a comprehensive and mindful approach to training, focusing on the physical, mental, and emotional well-being of the horse. Let's explore how we can implement holistic techniques to encourage willingness and submission:

1. Building Trust and Communication:

Establishing a foundation of trust and effective communication is essential for developing willingness and congruence. Spend quality time with your horse, engaging in activities that promote bonding and understanding. Groundwork exercises, in particular those done at  liberty, allow for non-verbal communication and help build trust. Consistency, clarity, and patience in our cues and signals foster a deeper level of understanding between horse and handler.

2. Positive Reinforcement and Rewards:

Utilizing positive reinforcement techniques is a powerful tool in promoting willingness and submission. Rewarding desired behaviors with praise, treats, or a gentle pat encourages the horse to repeat the behavior willingly. By focusing on positive reinforcement, we create a positive and encouraging learning environment, strengthening the horse's motivation and desire to cooperate.

3. Understanding Individual Needs:

Each horse is unique, with their own personality, strengths, and challenges. It is crucial to tailor our training methods to accommodate their individual needs. Holistic horse handling requires us to observe and assess the horse's physical and emotional state, adapting our approach accordingly. Recognizing signs of stress, discomfort, or resistance allows us to adjust our training methods to ensure the horse's well-being and receptiveness.

4. Mindfulness and Patience:

Practicing mindfulness in our interactions with horses enhances our ability to understand their responses and needs. Being present in the moment allows us to notice subtle cues and signals from the horse, facilitating effective communication and building trust. Additionally, patience is paramount in training. Rushing or forcing the horse into compliance can lead to resistance and anxiety. Giving the horse time to process and respond at their own pace promotes a positive learning experience.

5. Balance and Consistency:

A holistic approach to horse handling involves maintaining balance and consistency in our training methods. Striking a balance between leadership and giving direction and empathy. We can ask hard things of our horse while respecting their boundaries. Consistency in our cues, expectations, and reinforcement methods provides clarity and helps establish a solid foundation for the horse's understanding.

Embracing willingness and congruence in horse training is a transformative journey that requires holistic horse handling techniques. By prioritizing trust, effective communication, positive reinforcement, individual needs, mindfulness, patience, and balance, we can create a harmonious partnership with our equine companions. Remember, through our commitment to holistic horse handling, we cultivate an environment where willingness and congruence flourish, leading to a strong and mutually fulfilling connection between horse and handler.

The biggest mistake?

The biggest mistake I see equestrians making is thinking man handling and wrestling a horse into a behaviour is training. 

Training is creating a language. First you are shaping a word. This is where I love positive reinforcement for what I call single word cues. 

One behaviour, that is easy to guide, mark and motivate. This is where all the big lessons are learnt. What your horse does when it's frustrated, doesn't know the answer, bored, not relaxed, not seeking answers, how long they can hold their focus for, when they need a break, the signs they show just before they need a break, so many things about that unique horses learning process. 

Because the big goal is multiple linked behaviours that create a back and forth conversation to achieve the big, scary, complicated task. Just as we want the horse to learn our cues we need to learn there's. Just because they understand the word we used doesn't mean they will say yes. We need to create a language around the no. 

Is it there is pain? Is it I don't know the answer? Is it I can't do that right now? Is it yes but I need a moment to process before I say yes. Is it yes but on the condition of reciprocity? 

When we listen we give horses permission to communicate what they need to participate in the activity we are doing with them. But if we are to listen we need to learn to read the communication of the body.

The biggest mistake?

The biggest mistake I see equestrians making is thinking man handling and wrestling a horse into a behaviour is training. 

Training is creating a language. First you are shaping a word. This is where I love positive reinforcement for what I call single word cues. 

One behaviour, that is easy to guide, mark and motivate. This is where all the big lessons are learnt. What your horse does when it's frustrated, doesn't know the answer, bored, not relaxed, not seeking answers, how long they can hold their focus for, when they need a break, the signs they show just before they need a break, so many things about that unique horses learning process. 

Because the big goal is multiple linked behaviours that create a back and forth conversation to achieve the big, scary, complicated task. Just as we want the horse to learn our cues we need to learn there's. Just because they understand the word we used doesn't mean they will say yes. We need to create a language around the no. 

Is it there is pain? Is it I don't know the answer? Is it I can't do that right now? Is it yes but I need a moment to process before I say yes. Is it yes but on the condition of reciprocity? 

When we listen we give horses permission to communicate what they need to participate in the activity we are doing with them. But if we are to listen we need to learn to read the communication of the body.

Unveiling the Secrets: What Horses Are Really Scared Of

Horses have captivated humans for centuries with their grace, power, and beauty. However, these magnificent creatures can also be quite sensitive and easily startled. If you've ever wondered what horses are truly scared of, then you're in for a surprise! In this blog post, we'll delve into a captivating video that reveals the hidden fears of horses, leaving us with a deeper understanding of their psychology and behavior. So, get ready to be amazed and join the conversation by sharing your experiences in the comments below!

Let us start by dispelling common misconceptions and how objects we can thing are nothing can evoke intense reactions from these gentle giants. The horses in the video react to various stimuli, such as colorful balloons, plastic bags, and unexpected noises. The purpose of these demonstrations is to shed light on the horse's innate survival instincts and highlight their sensitivity to unfamiliar or threatening stimuli.

To comprehend why horses react the way they do, it's essential to understand their psychology. Horses are prey animals, meaning they have evolved to be constantly on the lookout for potential threats in their environment. Their survival instincts drive them to be highly alert and responsive, as any unexpected movement or sound could signal danger. By identifying and reacting to potential threats, horses increase their chances of survival. These initial responses are instinctive and the horse cannot control themselves. The startle reflex is exactly that, a reflex where the horse has no control. What happens next is how we can support our horses to be less reactive to their environment.

Now that we've seen horses' instinctual fears, it's crucial to consider how we can foster a harmonious relationship with these magnificent creatures. This is where Holistic Horse Handling Methodology comes into play. Holistic horse handling is a comprehensive approach that emphasizes understanding, empathy, and trust between horses and humans. By recognizing and addressing the fears and anxieties that horses may experience, we can establish a strong foundation of trust and ensure their emotional well-being.

If you're intrigued by the concept of Holistic Horse Handling Methodology and would like to learn more, there is a Holistic Horse Handling Methodology program offered by the Equestrian Movement. This program provides a wealth of knowledge and techniques to guide you on this enlightening journey. By joining the waitlist, you can access this transformative program and gain the skills necessary to build a deep and meaningful connection with your equine companions.

We believe that learning is a collective experience, and your insights and experiences are valuable. If you've tried any of the techniques or strategies mentioned in the video or have your own anecdotes about understanding and handling horses, we encourage you to share your thoughts in the comments section below. By engaging in conversation, we can create a community of horse enthusiasts dedicated to promoting the well-being and understanding of these magnificent animals.

Horses have a rich and complex inner world that often remains hidden from casual observers. This blog post, which explores what horses are genuinely scared of, provides us with a unique opportunity to glimpse into their fears and understand their behaviour better. Through Holistic Horse Handling Methodology, we can bridge the gap between humans and horses, fostering a relationship built on trust, empathy, and mutual respect. 

Visit our upcoming webinar “Say Yes to a Happy, Willing Horse” for more information.

Is it pain, fear, or frustration - or something else?

When we are watching our horses work, we love seeing them move beautifully and we don't want to see them in pain. But as we become more educated we see the subtle body language cues that are expressing pain and discomfort around work.

But how do you tell the difference between work evasion, pain of all the sorts that horses can get, fear or the frustration and anxiety of learning? 

That's why we have built the Holistic Horse Handling Program. 

You can't train pain. 

So how do you know what's behaviour and what's pain? How do you know if you should just push them through it or if it will blow them over threshold and develop a fear based relationship to training? How do you know you're not doing more harm than good? 

Understanding your horses unique way of communicating it's needs, plus our expert eye supporting your every step, will help you on your journey to developing an engaged, consenting, enthusiastic horse that enjoys learning and asks to be ridden.

Sound like an impossible unicorn? 

We help students time and again build the relationship they dream about so that they can reach their goals together as a team instead of at the expense of their horse. You can train your own unicorn. 

Learn how in the Holistic Horse Handling Program

The Social Engagement System

The social engagement system only comes online when you're relaxed and feel safe. 

When you're stressed, tense, anxious or in general have an agitated nervous system it's hard to have conversations that go well. Conversations generally escalate to conflict and that conflict looks like your default self protection mechanism, whether that be shutting down and internalising, people pleasing, getting angry and firing up or refusing to cooperate.

This is what happens with our horses when we look to submission based power over tools in training. Their nervous system responds, I feel threatened, I am threatened and their behavioural response looks like their default personality for how they deal with threat. 

What most Conflicted Equestrians don't know is that this is not your horse.

This is a version of your horse that doesn't feel safe with you. By creating an environment where your horse feels safe in relationship to you, enjoys learning and feels good in their body we get to see that version of our horses.

The aggressive horse is a great protector and not easily scared. It will defend and protect what it loves. They loooooove task achievement. They are living for that dopamine and are super treat orientated. They are all about a fair exchange rate and prefer bartering in treats than love. They dont particularly like to be touched or have others in their bubble and if they let you in they really, really.... really!!! Like you. They need rest breaks in learning to figure things out and get agitated and can lash out if they think they got it right but we say they didn't. When they do know the answer they prefer to not drill movements but to move frequently into new exercises that feel good in their body.

The stubborn horse that refuses to move can be very soft and caring, has a nurturing nature and a gentle soul. Learning is hard and it takes a lot of practice and repetition to get something but once they've got it it's locked in. They refuse to move if it's not a full body yes and doesn't feel good in their body. They prefer to do a couple of repetitions and then have a good break before trying again. They are the safest of the horses often choosing stop and refusing to move over bolting, rearing or bucking. Once they get to that point you have missed some really important signs and are either in a lot of pain or feel really unsafe. 

The horse that gets hot, anxious and people pleases can be a lot of fun and has an adventurous, explorative, playful nature. They are quick to get performance anxiety in training and give anticipatory behaviours but are also super quick to learn, needing constant praise and reassurance. They only need to do it once or twice before they get it. They hate repeating things. To hold their focus you need to think outside the box and figure out how to make practising the exercise more of a puzzle that engages their brain otherwise they will run around spooking at everything for funzies.

The horse that internalises and shuts down is super loyal to a fault and at the expense of their body. They will stretch further and try harder than anyone else. This horse is good at everything. They are the great all-rounder and don't really struggle with any exercise you present them with. They enjoy going fast and jumping high but will also enjoy solving a puzzle or task, going on adventures, moonlit walks on the beach and a candlelit dinner. They start out strong but you need to commit to appreciating them significantly because they will lose interest in efforting and participating in work when we don't show appreciation for them and their work.

Which horse sounds most like yours? 

The Social Engagement System

The social engagement system only comes online when you're relaxed and feel safe. 

When you're stressed, tense, anxious or in general have an agitated nervous system it's hard to have conversations that go well. Conversations generally escalate to conflict and that conflict looks like your default self protection mechanism, whether that be shutting down and internalising, people pleasing, getting angry and firing up or refusing to cooperate.

This is what happens with our horses when we look to submission based power over tools in training. Their nervous system responds, I feel threatened, I am threatened and their behavioural response looks like their default personality for how they deal with threat. 

What most Conflicted Equestrians don't know is that this is not your horse.

This is a version of your horse that doesn't feel safe with you. By creating an environment where your horse feels safe in relationship to you, enjoys learning and feels good in their body we get to see that version of our horses.

The aggressive horse is a great protector and not easily scared. It will defend and protect what it loves. They loooooove task achievement. They are living for that dopamine and are super treat orientated. They are all about a fair exchange rate and prefer bartering in treats than love. They dont particularly like to be touched or have others in their bubble and if they let you in they really, really.... really!!! Like you. They need rest breaks in learning to figure things out and get agitated and can lash out if they think they got it right but we say they didn't. When they do know the answer they prefer to not drill movements but to move frequently into new exercises that feel good in their body.

The stubborn horse that refuses to move can be very soft and caring, has a nurturing nature and a gentle soul. Learning is hard and it takes a lot of practice and repetition to get something but once they've got it it's locked in. They refuse to move if it's not a full body yes and doesn't feel good in their body. They prefer to do a couple of repetitions and then have a good break before trying again. They are the safest of the horses often choosing stop and refusing to move over bolting, rearing or bucking. Once they get to that point you have missed some really important signs and are either in a lot of pain or feel really unsafe. 

The horse that gets hot, anxious and people pleases can be a lot of fun and has an adventurous, explorative, playful nature. They are quick to get performance anxiety in training and give anticipatory behaviours but are also super quick to learn, needing constant praise and reassurance. They only need to do it once or twice before they get it. They hate repeating things. To hold their focus you need to think outside the box and figure out how to make practising the exercise more of a puzzle that engages their brain otherwise they will run around spooking at everything for funzies.

The horse that internalises and shuts down is super loyal to a fault and at the expense of their body. They will stretch further and try harder than anyone else. This horse is good at everything. They are the great all-rounder and don't really struggle with any exercise you present them with. They enjoy going fast and jumping high but will also enjoy solving a puzzle or task, going on adventures, moonlit walks on the beach and a candlelit dinner. They start out strong but you need to commit to appreciating them significantly because they will lose interest in efforting and participating in work when we don't show appreciation for them and their work.

Which horse sounds most like yours?

Interview Adele Shaw from the Willing Equine

Embark on a symphonic adventure into the realm of equine well-being, guided by the virtuoso of holistic horsemanship, Adele Shaw. Prepare to be enthralled as she masterfully nurtures every facet of a horse's life, creating an opus of true equine thriving that resonates with love, compassion, and a deep understanding of the profound bond between humans and horses.

Adele Shaw is an internationally recognized mentor, behavior consultant, and trainer focused on creating a positive relationship between horse and human through science-based training and care practices. Drawn to horses labeled as "trouble makers" and "lost causes" from an early age, Adele has always had a passion for understanding the "why" behind behavior and a deep desire to help horses find their way back to wellness. This holistic approach examines the horse's environment, lifestyle, and physical and mental soundness to ensure that the horses are not simply surviving, but truly thriving in their life and relationship with their human caretakers. As a teacher, Adele is supportive and understanding of both horse and human, and tailors her lessons to provide the most personalized, accessible, and ethically minded coaching possible. Her approach goes beyond method: by offering flexible training and care systems, the wellbeing of the horse and the empowerment of the student always remain the primary goals.

In addition to her hands-on work with specialized rehabilitation cases at her ranch in Texas, Adele maintains an active role in the equestrian community through her clinics, online student programs, courses, blog, podcast, and social media outreach. As she connects with students across the globe, Adele remains dedicated to making information on behavioral science, positive reinforcement, LIMA principles, humane hierarchy, and species-appropriate care practices accessible and achievable for every horse owner through The Willing Equine.

Adele's expertise in equine behavior and training extends beyond the surface level. She delves deep into understanding the intricacies of each horse's unique needs, taking into account factors such as their environment, physical health, and emotional well-being. By adopting a holistic approach, she strives to create an environment where horses can thrive physically, mentally, and emotionally.

Through her mentorship and guidance, Adele empowers horse owners to cultivate a positive and harmonious relationship with their equine partners. By promoting understanding, patience, and empathy, she helps horse owners develop effective communication skills and build trust-based connections with their horses. Adele recognizes that each horse is an individual with their own story, and she works tirelessly to help them overcome challenges, unlock their potential, and lead fulfilling lives.

Adele's dedication to the equine community extends beyond her physical presence at her Texas ranch. Through her clinics, online programs, blog, podcast, and social media outreach, she shares her wealth of knowledge and experience with horse owners worldwide. Adele believes that education is key to improving the well-being of horses everywhere. She strives to make valuable information on behavioral science, positive reinforcement, and humane care practices accessible to all, empowering horse owners to provide the best possible care for their beloved equine companions.

Adele Shaw's expertise, passion, and dedication to holistic horsemanship have made her an influential figure in the equestrian world. Through her commitment to understanding equine behavior and promoting positive, science-based training and care practices, she has transformed the lives of countless horses and their human partners. Adele's tireless efforts to educate and empower horse owners have created a ripple effect, fostering a community of compassionate and knowledgeable equine enthusiasts who strive to create a world where horses truly thrive.

Is your horse sour on training?

The intricate dance between humans and horses has fascinated us for centuries. From working partners to trusted companions, horses have woven themselves into the fabric of human history. 

In the realm of education and training, school horses take centre stage, providing valuable lessons not only in riding but also in building relationships based on trust and communication. However, just like any relationship, the bond between riders and horses requires continuous nurturing. 

There are subtle indicators that can help us understand whether these majestic creatures are actively engaged in their training or if there's a risk of the connection faltering.
In equine communication, body language is a universal vocabulary. Engaged horses speak volumes through their posture, expressions, and movements. When a horse is invested in its training, you'll notice a lively energy (impulsion/a willingness to participate) in their step. They willingly respond to cues from riders and instructors, displaying a synchronicity that comes from a place of trust and understanding. There are many subtle cues that I’m looking for but know your own horse you will pick up on many more. 

• Where is your horse's eye contact

• Where are your horses ears

• Are they hold tension

• Can they stand with relaxation

• Are you having to pressure them for performance

• When do they start saying no (resisting, stop giving eye contact, generally not consenting)

• How do they stand

• Do they track up when they move

• What does their head carriage look like

• Are they breathing

• Are they happy receiving physical contact, are they giving physical contact

Conversely, disinterested horses might exhibit subtle but telling signs. A lack of enthusiasm might manifest as a slouched posture or slow, lethargic movements. They might seem distracted or unresponsive to commands they've previously mastered. This shift can stem from various factors—physical discomfort, boredom, or even an underlying health issue. Recognizing these signals early on can prevent the deterioration of the relationship between riders and their equine partners.

Consistency

Consistency in behaviour is a powerful telltale sign of a horse's engagement. When a horse consistently performs well, follows commands, and exhibits a positive attitude, it's a clear indication that the training is on track. 

But don’t let this be your stopping point. This is where we separate green and conflicted equestrians from truly connected equestrians.

It is not the horse's responsibility to come in and perform its tricks for you with a smile on its face. Why would your horse want you to ride it? How can learning be fun? Why would they spend energy reserves? How can moving feel good? Why would your horse look after? Why would they invite you on their back? Why would they lick you instead of bite you? Why would they nuzzle you instead of headbutt you?

Instead of asking yourself how can I get my horse to do “insert behaviour here”, ask yourself, “why would they want to”
It highlights that the horse is not only learning the necessary skills but also integrating the process. Getting them to do a particular behaviour without the horse understanding why or how they should know what you want from them through pressure and coercion means that you are starting from scratch every time you want to do something new. Setting up a language, a process for your horse to understand that you are trying to get them to do something and also for us to be ok with them getting the answer wrong when they are trying to figure it out, sets up a relationship where we are giving them a puzzle to solve. A horse trying to solve a puzzle is a much nicer horse to work with than a horse trying to get away from pressure. This steady process also fortifies the bond between rider and horse, building trust, confidence and understanding in each other.

Erratic performance can hint at a potential disconnect. 

Horses that excel one day but struggle the next might be grappling with external factors. It could be an environmental change, discomfort from improper gear, or even a reaction to the rider's mood and demeanour. In these cases, addressing the root cause and providing consistent support can reignite the spark in their training journey. Sometimes our horses can also lose interest in their work so finding different ways to re engage them in not only carrying us but learning and playing with us helps navigate these moments of “sourness”.

Enthusiasm

While horses can't express themselves in words, their actions speak volumes. 

Engaged horses often exhibit enthusiasm during training sessions. They readily respond to cues, exhibit curiosity, and display a willingness to cooperate. Their eyes sparkle with an almost palpable zest for learning, and they approach new challenges with a sense of adventure.

A lack of engagement can manifest as subtle resistance. Horses might hesitate, display stubbornness, or even show signs of frustration and performance anxiety. This is where confused or conflicted equestrians get stuck.

To be a connected equestrain, it's our duty to decipher their nonverbal language and adjust our approach accordingly.

The relationship between humans and horses is a delicate symphony, built on trust, respect, and effective communication. 

Recognizing the signs of engagement or disinterest is crucial in maintaining the quality of this relationship. By attentively observing their body language, noting consistency in behaviour, and listening to the unspoken cues, we can ensure that the partnership between riders and their equine companions remains strong and enduring. 

As we invest time and effort into their training, we cultivate not only skilled riders but also compassionate individuals who understand the value of listening to the silent language of these remarkable animals.

Not sure if your horse has started to sour? Head over to the mini course Opening Communication for a guide on helping you and your horse increase communication and start working towards those unicorn moments!

3 Tips for getting your horses respect

Ah, the age-old question: Is your horse channeling their inner rebel, pushing boundaries, and generally giving you a hard time? 

It's like a wild dance, and not the good kind with sequins and a disco ball. 

I get it; we've all been there, questioning our moves and wondering who's leading the wrong cha-cha. But fear not, because in the world of hooves and gallops, there's a way to waltz through this challenge without resorting to the tired steps of power struggles.

You see, I was once in a world where the law of the land was "be scarier than the thing your horse is scared of." It's like trying to win a staring contest with a unicorn – noble in theory, but not very practical. And let's face it, engaging in a never-ending showdown with your equine companion isn't exactly a picnic under the sun.

“Being the bigger, scarier object: it’s like trying to win a staring contest with a unicorn - noble in theory, but not very practical”

So, here's the lowdown: the truth is, for most of us mere mortals, trying to out-tough a horse isn't exactly a winning strategy, especially if you're a rider who's still navigating the beginner to intermediate waters. It's like bringing a rubber ducky to a jousting match – cute, but not exactly effective.

Harmony in Respect

But hold onto your saddles, because there's a more harmonious way to lead this dance, and it doesn't involve trying to be the sheriff of the stables. 

Enter the stage, Compassionate Leadership, the second pillar of the Holistic Horse Handling Methodology. 

Instead of demanding respect from your horse like a strict teacher, it's about fostering a partnership built on trust, understanding, and a sprinkle of equestrian empathy.

Respect, my fellow equestrians, isn't something that's demanded from your horse like an overdue rent payment. It's a result, a beautiful byproduct of the relationship you share. It's the dance moves that flow seamlessly when both partners are in sync. 

Imagine the tango where the lead isn't forced, but rather an invitation that's gracefully accepted.

How to gain your horse's respect

Now, let's talk about the ingredients that whip up this equestrian masterpiece, which we work through inside the Holistic Horse Handling Methodology. 

1. First up, psychological safety:

   Just like any relationship, your horse needs to feel secure, not like they're tip-toeing around landmines. It's about becoming the reliable anchor in their world, a safe haven where fears can be faced together. 

   Allowing your horse permission to communicate their needs allows your horse to feel safe in relationship to you. You won’t always like what your horse has to say but it is important to listen and negotiate the terms of engagement fairly (and no, telling your horse how much you spend on feed, agistment and tack is not the part of the negotiation that they respond to) it’s the quality of how you show up in relationship with them.

2. And oh, the magic word- Congruence:

   No, it's not about doing a funky chicken dance (unless you want to, of course). It's about aligning your intentions, emotions, and actions. Horses, being the intuitive creatures they are, appreciate honesty more than a stable full of carrots.

   But wait, there's more! 

3. Teamwork:

   Remember those awkward school group projects? Well, this is nothing like that. It's about acknowledging that you and your horse are a duo, partners in this symphony of hooves and heartbeats. When you work together, it's not just a dance; it's a full-blown musical.

So, the next time your horse decides to test the waters of rebellion, remember, it's not about being a cowboy superhero. It's about wielding the power of compassion, understanding, and mutual respect. 

The dance floor of the arena doesn’t have to be a battlefield; with the Holistic Horse Handling Methodology you can build a stage for a harmonious duet where you both lead and follow in perfect harmony. 

So, swap out power struggles for a graceful pas de deux, and let the magic unfold.

How big is your horses bubble

One of my favourite exercises to do with students is get up really close to them, right in their space and ask them if they're comfortable. honestly we're going to have to video it someday but try it on with some people in your life it's a good laugh.

But what is the purpose of this exercise? 

It's a reminder about bubbles and space. 

Everyone has a different bubble and the bubble is different for different people. And when we sit on a horse's back we are really in their bubble!! It is good practice to be invited into their bubble and on to their back. 

Not wanting us in their space is a big reason for tension and behavioural issues.  You can't obtain relaxation and swing if your horse doesn't have mental relaxation. And your horse certainly doesn't have mental relaxation when its skin is crawling because you're in its space.

This is a big focus inside the Holistic Horse Handling Methodology - to have our horse invite us into their bubble and, eventually, into the saddle.

Different horses have different bubbles:

• Some horses don't have bubbles and are all up in our space and bubble and we have to set the bubble with them otherwise they go over the top of us. 

• Some horses need to feel like we are safe and predictable to let us come into their space. 

• Other horses just don't really like to be touched and prefer us to stand quietly with them and not be in their bubble all the time.  

Do you know what your horse's bubble preference is? Go hang out with them and see where they are comfortable around you, and tell us in the comments!

Essential Steps Before Training Behaviors With Katie

As a professional in the field, I frequently encounter various problem behaviours in animals. In fact, I am regularly referred to when people are dealing with issues with their horse.

There are certain aspects I always review before jumping into the process of shaping behaviours and resolving issues. In this blog post, we will delve into important considerations that need to be explored before embarking on behaviour training. Let's dive in!

1. Understanding the Individual:

Before training any behaviour, it is essential to comprehend the unique characteristics, needs, and background of the animal in question. Each animal possesses its own temperament, history, and learning style. 

By taking the time to evaluate these aspects, we can tailor the training approach to suit the individual animal's requirements, maximising the chances of success.

2. Establishing Trust and Building a Bond:

Building a strong bond based on trust is the foundation for effective behaviour training. It is crucial to create a positive association with the animal and use reward-based methods. 

Through praise, treats, and positive reinforcement, we can foster trust and strengthen the relationship between the animal and the trainer. This connection is pivotal in motivating the animal to participate willingly in the training process.

3. Assessing the Environment:

The environment plays a vital role in an animal's behaviour. Before addressing specific behaviours, it is crucial to evaluate the physical and social environment the animal is exposed to. 

Identifying potential stressors, triggers, or factors contributing to the undesired behaviour enables us to modify the environment and create a more conducive setting for training. This proactive approach helps set the animal up for success and reduces the likelihood of regression.

4. Health and Wellness Considerations:

An animal's physical and mental well-being significantly impacts their behaviour. Before commencing behaviour training, it is imperative to ensure that the animal is in good health and free from any underlying medical conditions that might contribute to problem behaviours.

A visit to a veterinarian is recommended to rule out any potential health issues that could affect the training process.

5. Identifying and Managing Reinforcers:

Understanding what motivates an animal is essential for successful behaviour training. Identifying the animal's preferred reinforcers—whether they are food, play, praise, or other forms of positive reinforcement—allows us to tailor the training to their specific needs and preferences. 

Consistently using these reinforcers helps maintain the animal's engagement and encourages the desired behaviours.

6. Setting Realistic Goals:

Clear and realistic goals are essential for effective behaviour training. Before addressing any specific problems, it is vital to establish achievable objectives based on the animal's capabilities and limitations. 

By breaking down complex behaviours into smaller, manageable steps, we can make the training process less overwhelming for both the animal and the trainer. You just have to take worming as an example - how many steps do you think you have to make to achieve this, and how many skills does your horse need to be able to handle being wormed?

Addressing problem behaviours in animals requires a thoughtful and holistic approach. 

By considering these essential steps before training behaviours, we can enhance the chances of success while creating a positive and enriching experience for both the animal and the trainer. 

Understanding the individual, building trust, assessing the environment, prioritising health and wellness, identifying reinforcers, and setting realistic goals are crucial elements to address before embarking on behaviour training. By investing time and effort in these preparatory stages, we lay the groundwork for a fruitful training journey.

Are you confusing submission for willingness?

There are two terms that often cross paths and are sometimes used interchangeably: submission and willingness. 

Yet, beneath the surface, there exists a significant distinction that sets them apart. Let us share with you how we tease apart the intricacies and subtleties of these concepts and explore the profound nature of a horse's choice.

Picture this: you're engaged in training your horse, a partnership that has been nurtured over weeks, and it's time to introduce a new challenge. You ask something of your horse, whether it's a complex exercise or a simple task. What unfolds next is where the divide between submission and willingness becomes apparent.

Submission, often misinterpreted as a desirable trait, implies obedience driven by fear or coercion. In this context, your horse complies with your request out of fear of the consequences of disobedience or because it has been conditioned to respond to your cues. It's a robotic, mechanical compliance. 

Is this truly the pinnacle we aspire to in our relationship with these majestic animals?

Now, let's shift our perspective to willingness. Willingness signifies a horse's voluntary and enthusiastic participation in the task at hand. It arises from a foundation of trust, respect, and a mutual understanding between horse and rider. When a horse displays willingness, it doesn't merely carry out your ask; it does so with eagerness, enthusiastic to participate.

So, how do we differentiate between submission and willingness in our equine partners? The key lies in this question: would the horse willingly engage in the same behaviour without external pressures or the fear of repercussions?

One of the big training hurdles my students have to overcome is the idea that you have to let go of control to gain “control”. You actually don’t have control over the horse because of the bit or the halter, or the pressure you apply, or the way you manhandle your horse. It is hard to let go and trust and it's also hard to acknowledge that no matter how hard you hold and how tight the grip is you aren’t actually in control. 

That’s why I teach the Holistic Horse Handling Methodology, where we start with connection, consent, togetherness. When the thing you want your horse to do is their choice as well, you can have more confidence in how your horse will respond. And when you take the time to have conversations around choice with your horse, you can start to understand the different no’s before you get to volatile no’s. 

• Not right now, 

• Ask in a different way,

• I don’t understand, 

• Tthat hurts, 

• I can’t physically do it, 

• I’m sore today from our work yesterday…

…All of these still look like resistance, but can be negotiated differently to find out what a yes today looks like.

Especially if you are a competitor, this starts to give you an understanding of what your horse needs conditioning wise to have them at their peak on show day. Understanding what their workload looks like to have elastic, athletic movement without muscle soreness or tightness from working the day before on show day has the potential to give you the edge and push your percentage up a couple of marks. Knowing how much warm up they need to be elastic but not fatigued. What the cool down should look like, what your cross training looks like leading up to a show, how to keep them from going arena sour by adding engaging exercises to their training or hacking them out. All these facets of training can only be uncovered when the horse has permission and the psychological safety to communicate when it is not having a good day and when it is!

So often we are called upon as riders to “push our horse through it”, “make them do it”, “show them who’s boss”, ignore the no, cowgirl up and do it anyway; not only does it break our horses trust and confidence in us but it also means they have no way of communicating to us that the work they are doing is detrimental to their health. 

The work we are forcing them into is going to create long term soundness issues that mean they will break down and be unrideable. We are looking for signs that our horses are enjoying being ridden and movement feels good, not forcing them into exercises that lead to injury and long term irreparable damage to their body. 

The development of willingness is a gradual process. It necessitates patience, empathy, and a profound comprehension of your horse's needs and desires. It revolves around establishing an environment where your horse feels secure, valued, and heard. When this profound connection is forged, your horse evolves into more than a mere riding tool; it becomes a willing and enthusiastic partner. We work as a team and that union in flow is a beautiful place of peace in the saddle. This is how you start to move out of conflict and become the Connected Equestrian.

The next time you find yourself engaged with your horse, take a moment to reflect on the nature of your relationship. Are you pursuing submission through force and coercion, or are you nurturing willingness through trust and mutual understanding and confidence in each other?

Submission and willingness do not equate. Submission may yield immediate results, but it can corrode the bond between you and your horse over time. In contrast, willingness fosters a deeper connection, a partnership founded on trust and shared purpose.

Are you ready to be the Connected Equestrian?

Nag, Nag, Nag: Its Time To Stop

There's a familiar tale that riders can't help but share over and over again - the story of taming the green horse.

This journey takes us through a labyrinth of challenges, where we evolve from steering every step to letting our equine partners flourish with their prowess. Yet one annoying melody tends to sneak into our interactions: the persistent hum of nagging. 

But fear not, fellow Holistic Equestrians, for in this blog post, we'll explore the art of releasing control, building trust, and crafting a symphony of communication free from constant pestering.

Every rider remembers their first encounter with a green horse. Those early days are painted with an enthusiasm to guide, teach, and mold the equine protégé into a seasoned performer. 

However, as any experienced rider knows, the struggle to relinquish the reins is real. We find ourselves trapped in a web of over-enthusiasm, gripping those reins like a lifeline and constantly directing every move. It's a bit like trying to steer a ship with a teaspoon - counterproductive and more than a little exhausting.

Picture this: you're on the back of your green horse, feeling an adrenaline rush as you both navigate the arena. But wait, are you truly giving your horse the freedom to showcase their talents, or are you slipping into the role of the relentless backseat driver? It's all too easy to slip into the nagging mode, where every stride, turn, and jump is accompanied by excessive use of legs and hands. While it might seem helpful at the moment, this constant chatter can overshadow the horse's instincts and learning process.

Now, let's turn the spotlight on to the real stars of the show - the horses. Like any relationship, the rider-horse dynamic thrives on trust, respect, and balanced communication. 

Instead of micromanaging the horses every move, kicking to keep them going because you know as soon as you stop your horse will stop, we look to move with our horse with flow and integration. The art lies in finding the balance between giving direction and allowing the space for your horse to respond. 

Think of it as a dance - first you follow your horse, then your horse follows you, then you move together. 

Ah, and patience - do we ever stop working on this?

As riders, we want results, progress, and flawless performance. But remember, Rome wasn't built in a day, and neither is a harmonious partnership with your horse. Let go of the need for instant perfection and savour the small victories along the way. 

Celebrate that smooth turn, that graceful jump, and that moment of unspoken understanding. Trust takes time to blossom, and for Holistic Equestrians, it's worth every moment spent nurturing it.

As we bid farewell to the era of micromanagement and the haunting hum of nagging, let's welcome a new generation of partnership and communication with our green horses. The journey from directing every move to allowing our equine companions to shine is a challenge, but it promises growth, harmony, and a shared love for riding. 

Let's untangle ourselves from the web of control, embrace the symphony of cues, and dance into a future where our horses thrive and our hands rest easy on the reins. 

Happy riding, and remember, the best performances are born from the magic of trust!